A Week in the Life...

So I'm starting this to maybe get some help and insight into my life and the crazy shit that just seems to happen to me and my family... For starters; I'm Lnz pronounced Lin-zee. I'm thirty, single, and live with my gay friends B and Auz... I'm kinda scatterbrained so you'll just have to trust that I have something to say... Ok, so this week my parents decided to get divorced. Mom (55) and Dad (53) have been married for 34 years and the last 10 have been sketchy at best. They don't get along and Mom is slowly losing her mind to Alzheimer's and has gotten increasingly violent and mentally abusive... Dad is amazing and I don't know any man that could put up with what he has put up with. Here is my dilemma... I can't fault my Dad for leaving when he was pushed out the door and told to kick rocks, and I can't help being pissed at my Mom for being Bat shit crazy and pushing him out the door. I know I can't really blame her for being insane, but what do I do? Just accept that everyone I love is going to be treated like shit for breathing? I am at a loss...